Valerie, 16 Years Old

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Valerie turned 16 over the weekend. We let her have a friend stay overnight, spent the day Sunday constructing her cake, celebrated with family at Red Robin, and then let her stay home on Monday to spend the day with just Mark and I. We are so proud of the person she has become, and who she plans to be. In recent days she has had to make some tough choices about school, careers, classes, and friends. Instead of working it through with us she came to some very sound decisions and presented us with the final thought after she had contemplated it for nearly a week. I am part proud, part sad. Proud that she has the mindset to work through all these details alone and with such intelligence, and sad because she is growing up and needing her "mommy" less and less. I love her and am excited for her future. She is the best and brightest little star. Can't wait till she lights up the whole world! I know this year is going to be life changing for her. I see a Driver's License in her future, a car, and possibly more excitement in the way of the opposite gender. We should bone up on our Vietnamese culture...so I'm told! (Ha ha ha). Happy Birthday Valerie! I hope this year brings you every bit of happiness that you bring us!!!




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Shannon Cortez said…
Love the toy question. She was so funny!
8:50 PM
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